Re-entry Denied!
How organized abuse groups gain repeat access to their victims using access codes.
Organized abuse groups use access codes from the survivor’s childhood abuse to gain access to the survivor in adulthood. Anybody aware of a survivor’s access codes was either present during the childhood rape and abuse or was given this information by one of the original abusers. These codes are used repeatedly over the course of the survivor’s life to test and reinforce their effectiveness. The abuser group will continue using codes that no longer work in hopes that they will be able to access at least one part of the survivor that hasn’t healed.
Access codes trigger the survivor into a dissociative state much like the state they were in as a child when the rape or abuse was happening. The part of self that is brought forward is amenable to abuse. For example, say a child is raped repeatedly in a red room. As an adult, someone can take that survivor to a red room in order to access the childlike self-state that was raped and abused in red rooms. The survivor is easily controlled in that dissociative state. The codes are referred to as access codes because they allow perpetrators to ‘access’ a self state that will not resist the abuse that the perpetrator has planned for them. Justice for RAMCOA survivors will be difficult to achieve until non-compromised police departments understand this very simple feature of ritual and organized abuse.
Becoming aware of access codes is how I got back memories for some of my trauma. I first remembered being raped in motorhomes when my ex-boyfriend, who had gotten my access codes from my mother, took me to the Seattle RV show in 2021. I had told him I needed a friend and didn’t want a sexual relationship with him. He took me to tour RVs as a way to access the part of self that would allow him to rape me. He also knew numbers, colors, music, and other details from my childhood trauma that could only have been passed to him by someone who had been present for my childhood trauma. That is how I ended up getting raped multiple times by my ex-boyfriend, a cult member under my abuser group’s control, over the course of a year. Later, I remembered that I had been trafficked in our family motorhome as a child.
Sharing access codes with male cult members is one way that familial abusers continue trafficking their children into adulthood. The survivor may have successfully left the family, as I did when I got divorced in 2015, only to find themselves in a new relationship with someone who knows exactly how to trigger and control the survivor. The abuser group will also use the male cult member in this situation to get information about the survivor’s life. My ex Jon actually took a bag of paper intended for shredding from my garage. This abuse by proxy is a form of trafficking for the survivor: the abuser gets to continue their abuse while the male cult member gets compensated with sex from the survivor.
In some cases, the abuser group may employ threats to force someone in the survivor’s life to abuse them. It’s easy to see how this can be done with the total lack of response from law enforcement when reporting organized crime. If the survivor makes a report against the person, the group will happily throw the coerced individual under the bus. The coerced individual is expected to take the fall for lesser crimes like rape or domestic violence while covering up the organized crime. Compromised police are especially eager to crackdown on abusers by proxy because they know it takes attention off the organized crime.
A survivor’s empathy can also be manipulated so that they feel sorry for an abuser by proxy. Ritual abuse survivors, in particular, have seen many situations where fellow victims were forced to abuse. Groups set up abuse scenarios where children have to choose between killing and being killed, or harming someone in order to protect someone else who they perceive as more innocent or more worthy of protection. These scenarios continue into adulthood as the group seeks to replicate familiar cycles of abuse. There are many ways to continue abuse and trafficking in the adult survivor’s life and it all begins with the survivor granting access to the abusers.